I just stopped.

I STOPPED looking to get noticed.

and started pushing for that attention towards my businesses.

Creating for the purpose of longevity has been the most rewarding and profitable experience I’ve been on. Ups and downs. Twist and turns. This game of life is meant for you to give YOURSELF a try. If you don’t start, you’ll never know what you could have become. Thank you for following my journey.

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Write Your Own Rules

⚡️Writing My Own Rules ⚡️

Is the only way I know how to feel alive.

Feeling the quick impulse of energy when doing something I truly enjoy makes me happy.

I’m extremely joyful in the sky. Venturing on adventures outside the country.

The feeling when the airplane takes off into the sky  releases all my worries as the gravity lessens its burden on me.

There’s something about flying that makes me feel so free.



No responsibilities.

Until the time I venture up in the sky again, I’ll continue to write my own rules and spend time with the universe. For that creates the freedom I yearn for.

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Justice System + All Lives Matter = Unity

Reflection # 10

Justice System + All Lives Matter = Unity

This post might seem irrelevant to my other content but it’s something that needs to be said.

As people, we tend to filter out our actions between our own thought processes. We tend to take the easier route out of things, rather than support our initial beliefs.

Another man was killed today by our wonderful “justice system”. Like a piece of meat, right out in the open with no care for the life or soul it once lived. This issue continuously is  getting out of hand. Resulting in the justice system being injustice because of the hundreds of deaths occurring every couple of months.

I cannot wrap my head around this.

How is this legal?

This issue is past the point of white vs. black.

The real issue is there seems to be an “entitled group” allowed to dominate our lives with no repercussions. People should not get killed by cops, found neither guilty or innocent.

I’m a firm supporter against gun violence and trafficking.

AMERICA is not the land of freedom, it’s the land for freedom to die and be oppressed.

How can anyone be safe in this country? Who is actually protected? In my opinion,  police are just another example of gang voilence that cannot be categorized.

As a Summary:

Murdering innocent men based on profiling seems to be okay in this country.

Increased homicides due to “misjudgment” seems to be okay in this country.





This needs to stop.


Wasting My Time

Reflection #4

Wasting My Time

Optimization, an act, process, or methodology of making something (as a design, system, or decision) as fully perfect, functional, or effective as possible; specifically: the mathematical procedures (as finding the maximum of a function) involved in this.(Merriam-Webster).

Why is this action not used daily by people? When I think of optimization I think of saving time. Spending time going back and forth on something is not saving time.  As I get older my patience for things are decreasing. I mean my patience for everything has always been minuscule. People waste time more and more every day. Effort and time are wasted on meaningless relationships or tasks. But it’s up to you to know where optimization fits best in your life.

You’ve ever received an email at work, completed the task and then the requester comes back asking for additional information? This is a prime example of non-optimization. The optimization of time was not being used at all by the requester. Not only was their time wasted, but your time was also wasted because they, themselves did not optimize.

Working at a company you start to realize how there are many inefficient jobs. Is this a benefit or an inconvenience? What will happen if those jobs are eliminated? That’s an easy answer, there would be fewer jobs and but more productivity. But is that a bad thing? Why wouldn’t you want that? I imagine myself one day, growing balls and asking the Executive Board of my company or any company this question. Why do we have all these people working here if operation COULD continue without them? 8 hour days per employee, 4 hours of productivity within those 8 hour days. What if you gave the title and job responsibilities that are worth 2 people to 1 person? That’s what I call a well-oiled machine. You come to work, to work for the company not to lounge. Otherwise, if you have to much time on your hands you’ll just sit on the internet blogging on your website. OOOOPPPs, did I just reference myself?

The main point of this blog is not to slander my company or anyone’s idea of a productive day. The main purpose of this blog post is to make people focus on where their energy is going. Is your energy being directed towards all positive things that can help you progress in life? Or is there energy put into places you shouldn’t even waste. This is your life what you decide to do with it is your choice and only your choice. Don’t feel guilty for that. You’re not selfish for not wasting your time on unimportant things or unimportant people.

Grind Season

Reflection #3

Grind Season

So today I’m writing about the obvious, or at least it seems obvious to me. Never settle for or rely on just one source of income, make sure you have another source of incoming cash flow.

I’ve always been the type that’s needed consistent work to feel productive or complete. Whether it was joining organizations outside of work or working a second job, being busy is my second name. However, at this point in my life, I’ve decided to put my productive effort towards myself development. Build a name for me. And what better way to do that than to make money while pursuing my goals and dreams.

Everyone’s goals are different in life. Some people want to be CEOs of Fortune 500 companies and others just want to make enough money to retire and buy their own island. There is nothing wrong with both cases, however, I don’t see either of these two options as my life. My main goal and purpose are to just become a better me.

What does a better me entail? I have no clue, but I’m excited to learn. No kids, no husband, and no stress. It is the perfect stage to focus on developing myself for my future. The best part of it all is that I can become a better me because I desire to do it. Whatever you put your mind towards you can conquer it. I’m not saying that if you have kids or a spouse you cannot accomplish your set goals. I’m simply stating that flexibility with time may not be an option. But that shouldn’t stop you from reaching your goals. As someone once told me, ” If you need time, you’ll make time”. So you’ll make time if you need time, right?

With that being said, I’m not only pushing myself to accomplish all my goals and dreams, but I’m also pushing you as well. Be the better you desire to be because we only have one life to live. We have no choice but to live it to the fullest.