Write Your Own Rules

⚡️Writing My Own Rules ⚡️

is the only way I know how to feel alive.

Feeling the quick impulse of energy when doing something I truly enjoy makes me happy.

I’ve found that I’m extremely joyful in the sky venturing on adventures outside the country.

The feeling when I take off into the sky makes me release all my worries as the gravity lessens its burden on me.

There’s something about flying that makes me feel so free.



with no responsibilities.

Until the time I venture up in the sky, I’ll continue to just write my own rules while spending time on this universe. For that creates the freedom I yearn for.

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Island Gal 🌴 ⚡️⚡️

Thank you @couleur_me_mas for sending me this custom bathing 👙 suit! My curves felt so appreciated in this cute two-piece number. I felt sophisticated and elegant so I had to do a little 📸 photo shoot.


A lot of you may not know that I am a island girl by nature, born with that carribbean juju in my blood. I like to refer to it as a mixed breed of #painpatate and hint of #wreyandnephew


I was raised by my single mother, who is Haitian, in the heart of #Rochester, NY. I like to refer to it as the boondocks with a lot of deers. There weren’t many people like me out there, at least that I’ve come across. The lack of relatable connections created a yearning for self-identity. A yearning to feel comfortable enough to just be myself and embrace both cultures freely. I wanted a place that I could talk how I wanted to without being too “white” or too “black. I desired a place to explore my origins without questions being frequently asked because of confusion.


Now that I’m nearing 30, live in NYC and can freely go get some coco bread and pourage (yea, my obsession) down the block, I never want my culture to be isolated from me again.

My mom did her do diligence to exhibit customs within our household, it’s up to me to continue that legacy for my family to come.




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That one day…

That time I quit my job on a whim with a 3 weeks notice…

Hey! It happens…

Sometimes you reach the top of your threshold when a company doesn’t appreciate your 💫 assets. So I say this..


You wake up every morning to make someone else’s ☁️ dream come true. So why not use their resources to benefit you and your own dreams?


I would use the conference rooms at work for client calls during the day.

Not only did it make me feel more professional but it made me envision where my life was going to be.


One day I’ll have that conference room at OS Corp, with the engraving of my company name on the door.


Sometimes jobs are meant to expand our mindsets on what lives we can obtain. So use it to your best advantage. Connect with people. Practice communication with coworkers. Utilize the notepads to jot down ideas and thoughts throughout the day.


Everyone has a beginning. When will you start yours?


#FBT Circa 2017

The Re-Circling

Staying true to yourself can get lost very quickly with this world changing ever so quickly.

So I vow to myself and want you guys who believe to also take a vow.

Vow to keep pushing forward but only the forward that you envision for myself.

I can’t lie.

I did get caught up in a race I didn’t even realized I signed up for.

But as time keeps progressing and my desires keep coming into light, staying authentic is my primary goal. And should be yours as well.

No clout. Clout chasing is for validation.

No fake attention. Fake attention is to feed insecurities.

No unwanted friendships. Unwanted friendships are for the lonely.

This is the year i lost many “relationships” in the beginning but strengthened so many as time went on.

I’m grateful for my unit and the genuine support I receive.

This is my vow to remain true to the primary goal and to give you the correct steps on how to get on your own journey of self-discovery.

Not someone else’s, but yours.

Don’t get consumed by the virtual gratification. It’s imaginary.

So the tips I give you to proceed: 👇🏾

Be you.

Be true.

Be authentic.


Guess who I got to meet and speak to!?!

Lauren Simmons!!!

Such a pleasure to meet this beauty @LaSimmons at the @EnvsnFest 💫

Lauren so happens to be the ONLY black full-time female trader at the New York Stock Exchange.

This just reassured me that if you want to obtain something, just make it happen. A lot of us let 🕰 time keep passing us by without doing anything we are passionate about.

So I ask you why⁉️

Why do you waste your time so much❓

Strive for something. Strive to make an impact 🌐. Strive to be different and find your own lane without letting anything steer you off course.

This week just remember to be awesome. You already are, you just need to accept it.

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Paint Bucket Nail Shop Breast Cancer Fundraiser – October 25th

When women can come together for a GREATER being. 💫

#Babes4Boobs 💁🏽‍♀️ @PaintBucketNails held a #BreastCancerAwareness Fundraiser last night in their Williamsburg #nailshop.

Thank you so much to @PaintBucketNails for the invitation. Whenever I get a chance from my busy schedule I love just having a good time with some girlfriends.

Also, any event I can leave with boobs as #nailart 💅🏽 on my fingers is a winner in my book. Let’s just say, successful event 💕

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October 13th-#CultureCon18

This past weekend was truly amazing! 

I was able to attend the #CultureCon18 event this past Saturday, October 13th, to hear influencers and well known celebrities speak about their own path of self-discovery. Optimistic Searchings

Just a few names to list: #Johnlegend #RemyMa #NickCannon #CharlamagneThaGod #DeRayMcKesson #TaylorRooks #TylerMitchell #KelaWalker #EboniKWilliams #AngelaYee #ColmanDomingo #JonathanJackson

Thank you to The Creative Collective NYC for throwing such a great event! Looking forward to next year 💫

Rich Dad, Poor Dad

They told me Rich Dad Poor Dad was a

I’m definitely a believer now, can’t put it down.

Anyone else read this book?

What’s your opinion on it?

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